Being the Mother of a Heroin Addict

 

Being the mother or father of a heroin addict is probably one of the hardest things to deal with as a parent. This is a drug that changes people and destroys morals. Most of the time you feel as if there is nothing you can do to help your child. It will cause a huge impact on your relationship and turn your world upside down.

 

The heroin epidemic has no boundaries and stops at nothing to take the lives of those caught in its grips. As an innocent bystander, you will feel that there is nothing you can do but watch your child fall further and further into their addiction. Sometimes it is better to hope that your child ends up in prison than have to see them continue down the road to destruction.

 

Make sure that you always let your child know that you love them. Nothing that you did as a parent caused them to become addicts and nothing that you can do will save them from this disease. There is no point in beating yourself up about what has happened. Just keep them in your prayers and let them know that you love them unconditionally.

 

Your child’s rock bottom will likely be in a lower place than you ever want to see your child in. Many addicts lie, cheat, and steal to avoid becoming sick and to continue with their struggle. Overdoses are a nightmare that can hurt everyone around the addict, but they may need even more severe consequences than that to return to a normal life.

 

Avoid bailing your child out of the trouble that they get into. They must suffer and live with the consequences of their actions if you ever want them to see the truth. They may need to lose a good job, be evicted from their home and become homeless, or destroy their credit to even begin thinking that the drugs are the issue. They need to learn these hard lessons for themselves and face their problems head-on.

 

Do not give your child money and make sure that they know that you will not condone the choices they are making. Many will even go as far as selling their bodies to keep their drug habit creating a whole new set of problems. If you are helping to pay for their habit and they end up overdosing, you may never forgive yourself.

 

You should not allow an active addict to borrow your car or jeopardize your health, home, or well-being. There might come a point in your life when you have to tell a son or daughter that they are not allowed to be in your home. As much as you want to protect your child, you need to protect yourself as well.

 

An addict will cause themselves more pain than you can ever imagine and all the love in the world won’t stop them from making the choices they are making. They can easily lose everything they have and destroy every relationship that they have before they are willing to give up. Always assure them that you love them and always will love them but will not support them in their addiction. It will be the hardest thing that you will ever have to do as a parent.

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